You view your life through the perspective of expectation. Don’t burden yourselves in such a way. Just be and follow the light. Follow the breadcrumbs; the trail which steps out before you one pace at a time. When you open your hearts to just being and trusting, the universe is truly able to deliver its full beauty and glory through you in a manner which is exactly as it is meant to be. When you try to plan or influence or adjust your pathway the routing becomes distorted to a degree. That is not to say that there are not benefits and lessons to be gleaned from this, just that the happiest, most joyful expression of your being comes to the fore when you just go with the flow, as you’d intended when you made plans to incarnate in this existence.